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Ann Mary Alexander

it's okay to disappoint others

Published about 2 months ago • 1 min read

Here's something you should know about me.

I used to be a people pleaser.

I used to avoid conflicts and keep my opinions to myself.

I believed keeping the peace meant sacrificing my own voice.

But something always felt off.

Over time, I realized:

  • Sacrificing self-respect to make others happy isn’t worth it.
  • Standing up for yourself is not a crime.
  • Only insecure people are uncomfortable with your boundaries.

Most people hate it when you say no.

  • “I’m sorry, I can’t make it.”
  • “I’m sorry, I’m busy.”
  • “I’m sorry, I don’t want to.”

I know I don’t have to apologize, but I do—just to soften the blow.

The truth?

It’s tough to set boundaries at first.

People won’t like it.

But you can’t let their disappointment dictate your choices.

Time is your most valuable asset.

Disappointing others to protect your peace is not a sin.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

  • Set clear boundaries.
  • Don’t laugh at jokes made at your expense.
  • Walk away from condescending remarks.

People will take advantage of you if you don’t speak up.

But the right people?

They’ll respect you for who you are.

Take control. Stand your ground. You deserve respect.

Stay positive,

Ann.

P.S. Have you ever felt trapped in a love that’s breaking you? Watch the video and see how toxic love unfolds.

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